Just when the caterpillar thought it was over....

Did you know that in order for a caterpillar to turn into a butterfly, first it digests itself releasing enzymes to dissolve all of its tissues. In fact, if you were to open a cocoon at the right time, caterpillar soup would fall out. Yes, you read that right, IT DIGESTS ITSELF! At one point it becomes soup.....a stone's throw away from nothingness.

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Kelli Nielsen
You are the victor!

Definition of victim: one that is acted on and usually adversely affected by a force or agent

Definition of victor: one that defeats an enemy or opponent

Do you notice that victim is "acted on" and victor is "one that defeats"?

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Kelli Nielsen
Are traditions keeping you stuck?

Traditions can be like that. They can be comforting, and keep you connected to the ones you've lost. They can be the thread that helps to hold families together and keep the spirit and memories of our loved ones close to our heart.

But what happens when our traditions are not helpful?

More specifically, what are our traditions around grief and grieving? Did your family talk about grief and loss or just get quiet and stuff things emotionally? Perhaps your culture has some traditions around grief and loss that actually make it wrong or not okay to move forward.

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Grief/LossKelli Nielsen